What should I be looking out for?  Stages of Dementia

As I turn 60, and am the primary carer for my 91-year old mum who has Alzheimer’s dementia, I am finding that the discussions I have with friends are very different from the ones we had at 30, 40 and 50.

 

 

If our parents are still alive, most are in their 80s and 90s – some living with dementia, some not.

 

With the presence of more and more information about dementia in the public arena, I find the conversation often turns to what will we do if we get dementia ourselves.

 

Certainly lots, perhaps most of us, at this age are experiencing more absent-mindedness.

 

But is that just the result of a busy life that has now expanded to include grandchildren and perhaps parents who need more help?

 

What do we look for?  How do we know if it’s NOT just absent-mindedness?

 

And when should we stop, take a proper look, and maybe DO something?!

 

As you probably know, dementia is a chronic syndrome that affects the brain, causing the progressive decline of a person’s cognition and abilities.

 

The bad news is if you are going to get dementia, you are already on that

track in your 40s, and the symptoms will crop up in their own good time.

 

Most of us have had experience with someone whose most obvious problem was memory loss and confusion, and whilst it’s certainly the most common behaviour – accounting for between 50 and 70% of all dementia patients – it is in fact just one of over 130 different behaviours.

 

Because various parts of the brain are affected at separate times, people progress at different rates and in vastly different ways.

 

The statement: “everyone’s version of dementia is different” is important to take on board, but you might find the following outline of the progression useful.

 

Pre-Diagnosis

 

It’s just normal forgetfulness associated with ageing eg forgetting where the keys are, forgetting a name.

 

 

Mild cognitive decline

 

Increased forgetfulness, slight difficulty concentrating, and decreased work performance, and having difficulty finding the right words.

 

                                                  At this stage, a person’s loved ones will begin   

                                                  to notice.

 

Early-Stage Dementia:  Generally between 2 and 4 years

 

People can still live independently, and well, but they will need some assistance to do so.

 

Making changes like moving into some sort of residential facility can be prudent at this point, as can a family member or carer becoming involved in the management of some key areas.

 

Common symptoms are:

  • Short-term memory loss

  • Confusion

  • Loss of spontaneity and initiative

  • Mood or personality changes

  • Poor judgement

  • Difficulty handling finances

  • Inability in performing daily tasks to usual standards

  • Apathy and withdrawal from normal social situations

  • May be in denial about symptoms

 

Mid-stage dementia:  Anywhere from 2 to 10 years

 

People in mid-stage dementia require extensive assistance to carry out their Activities of Daily Living (ADLs). The changes during this period are significant, and can make people feel as if the world is a confusing and frightening place.

 

The role of Carers becomes critical at this stage, as does the need for good support services.

 

Common symptoms are:

 

  • Repetitive statements and movements

  • Restlessness, especially in late afternoon

  • Communication difficulties, particularly with word finding

  • Problems reading and writing

  • Deterioration in personal hygiene

  • Incontinence

  • Development of new behaviours such as delusions, paranoia, suspiciousness, wandering or hoarding

  • Difficulty recognising friends and newer family members

 

Late-stage dementia:  Between 1 and 3 years

 

In this often-distressing stage, a person may be unable to speak or walk, and will most likely be in need of full-time nursing care.

 

Although they may not engage with others easily, human contact, attention and touch are vital – for both their wellbeing and their quality of life.

 

Common symptoms are:

 

  • Inability to recognise family members

  • Difficulty recognising self

  • Little capacity for self-care

  • Little or no verbal communication

  • May put everything in mouth, or touch and fiddle with things

  • Incontinence

 

End of life

 

People can live for up to 20 years from when their dementia symptoms first begin, but as their mental health deteriorates, so does their overall health and wellbeing.

 

Alzheimer’s specifically, is known to cause a lowered immune system and often people experience major health issues as a result.

 

Dementia is insidious. 

 

It can make those who live with it feel alienated, and it can make their family and carers feel helpless on one hand, and overwhelmed on the other.

 

Currently almost 343,000 people in Australia live with the condition with thousands more affected as they care for their loved ones.

 

Help is at Hand

 

If you’re looking for more information or need support, there are numerous Organisations that provide extensive services, education and support for people living with dementia, and their families and carers.

 

Our MemBo Noticeboard system is one such service - Assistive Technology that might help you maintain your independence, or assist someone you know.

 

For more information go to https://www.membonoticeboard.com/  or email us at info@membonoticeboard.com

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